Guys Here’s How to Attract the Ladies

 

Play the Guitar

Playing an instrument shows a level of commitment and class to a woman. She will know how much time it takes to study and instrument and this says that you are a guy who can commit. Also the allure of a sexy musical instrument that can be played nearly anytime and anywhere will get her thinking of the romantic opportunities you can have together with you playing her love songs in front of the fire. However, you need lessons and so give someone like Tom Hess a call and ask him to teach you Stairway to Heaven or some other classic rock ballad. She’ll love it.

Be Confident

One of the most attractive qualities to a woman is a man who is sure about himself. Confidence is sexy and guys who have it always have women chasing them. The way the confidence is exuded is also important though. Women like men who are laid back about their confidence and who can remain cool even in high-stress situations. This is also why women gravitate to leaders. Leaders are the height of confident and have been that way throughout our evolutionary history. But again here women seek quite leader confidence as opposed to the loud boisterous throw-it-in-your-face type of leader. So to attract women, be sure to make decisions and if you are in a group be one to suggest meaningful courses of actions, especially when the tension is running high. You do not have to be right all the time, only able to keep a cool head and be decisive.

Take Her out to Dinner

Asking a woman out and buying her dinner has been a way to a woman for so long because it works so well. Women love to be singled out as special and this is what asking her out on a dinner date does, it says “I think you are special enough to single out.” Also there is something about food that makes a woman feel like she is being courted. The scientific term is ‘courtship feeding’ and it is definitely evolutionary. It says to her that you are willing to provide for her and that you are capable of doing it (yes you should aim for the nicest restaurant you can afford). So go with the genes and buy her a meal.

Grow that Beard

It is highly fashionable today for men to wear hair on their faces and there is a good reason why. Guys with facial hair and a good dress sense like wearing unique t-shirt designs seem both more approachable and more sociable. And these two qualities tie directly to a guy being more confident (see our earlier paragraph on the importance of confidence). This by the way applies to any facial hair including a few day old growth. So ditch the razor and let it grow.